Meet DR. Tamara Lapsley
FOUNDER, ELEGANT COACHING
Dr. Tamara Lapsley is a business coach who helps women turn life's transitions into their greatest comebacks. A proud veteran herself, Tamara is passionate about helping fellow women veterans transition, rebuild, and thrive in business. She specializes in guiding women through the emotional and strategic shifts that come with marriage, motherhood, or career reinvention. With a focus on empowerment and clarity, Tamara empowers women to reignite their dreams and step into the next, boldest chapter of their life.
The Second Acts Success Blueprint™
A Guided Journey from Burnout to Purpose, Confidence, and the Life You Were Created to Live
You have spent years showing up for your career, family, responsibilities, and the people who depend on you. Now, it’s time to make space for yourself.
The Second Acts Success Blueprint™ is a guided workbook designed for women who are ready to move beyond burnout, uncertainty, and self-doubt and intentionally create their next chapter.
Through thoughtful reflection, practical exercises, affirmations, and action planning, this workbook will help you reconnect with who you are, clarify what you want, and move forward with renewed confidence and purpose.
Using Dr. Tamara Lapsley’s signature R.E.A.L.™ Method—Reflect • Evolve • Align • Lead—you’ll be guided through a transformational journey that empowers you to:
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Reflect on the experiences and lessons that have shaped your life
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Release fear, guilt, and limiting beliefs
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Rebuild confidence and trust your voice
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Align your life with your values, vision, and purpose
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Create intentional goals for your next chapter
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Develop a personalized blueprint for lasting transformation
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Lead yourself with courage, confidence, and clarity
Whether you’re navigating a career transition, preparing for retirement, recovering from burnout, healing after loss, or simply sensing there’s more waiting for you, this workbook will help you move from surviving to thriving.
WHO THIS WORKBOOK IS FOR
This workbook was created for women who:
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Feel exhausted from constantly putting others first
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Are ready to rediscover themselves after years of serving others
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Desire greater confidence, clarity, and purpose
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Want practical tools—not just inspiration—to create lasting change
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Are committed to becoming the woman they were created to be
What’s Included
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Guided reflections
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Self-assessments
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Purpose discovery exercises
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Goal-setting worksheets
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Weekly action plans
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Confidence-building activities
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Journaling prompts
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Affirmations and declarations
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Your personalized Second Acts Success Blueprint™
CHOOSE YOUR TRANSFROMATION
THE SECOND ACTS WORKBOOK
$24.99
YOUR COMPLETE GUIDED WORKBOOK WITH PRACTICAL EXECERCISES, REFLECTION PROMPTS, AND ACTION PLANS TO HELP YOU CONFIDENTLY BEGIN YOUR SECOND ACT.
THE SECOND ACTS GROWTH BUNDLE
$39.99
(SAVE $10)
INCLUDES:
The Second Acts Success Blueprint™ Workbook
The Second Acts™ REFLECTION JOURNAL
PERFECT FOR WOMEN WHO WANT ADDITIONAL SPACE TO PROCESS, REFLECT, AND DOCUMENT THEIR TRANSFORMATION
The Confidence Bundle
$44.99
(SAVE $15)
INCLUDES:
The Second Acts Success Blueprint™ Workbook
The Second Acts™ Affirmation Cards
Build confidence every day with powerful affirmations that reinforce the lessons from the workbook.
THE COMPLETE SECOND ACTS COLLECTION
$59.99
(SAVE $20)
INCLUDES:
The Second Acts Success Blueprint™ Workbook
The Second Acts™ Affirmation Cards
The Second Acts™ REFLECTION JOURNAL
EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO REFLECT, GROW, HEAL, AND CONFIDENTLY STEP INTO YOUR NEXT CHAPTER.
READY TO BEGIN YOUR SECOND ACT?
The Second Acts Success Blueprint™ Workbook
YOUR PAST HAS PREPARED YOU.
YOUR EXPERIENCE HAS EQUIPPED YOU.
NOW IT'S TIME TO CREATE THE FUTURE YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.
ORDER YOUR COPY TODAY AND BEGION BUILDING THE LIFE YOU WERE CREATED TO LIVE.
DR. TAMARA LAPSLEY
FOUNDER ELEGANT COACHING
SECOND ACTS START HERE.
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We ignite your inner strength to reclaim your voice and lead with absolute confidence.
We transform life's transitions into your most powerful comebacks and next chapter.
We help you build the business and the life you were made for, at every stage of life.
A Daughter. A Mother. A Wife. A Soldier… A WOMAN.
A Novel of Strength, Sisterhood, and Service
Some stories deserve to be told—not because they’re extraordinary, but because they’re real.
A Daughter. A Mother. A Wife. A Soldier… A WOMAN. is a powerful novel that honors the resilience, sacrifice, and courage of women who serve while balancing the many roles life asks them to carry.
Through heartfelt storytelling, Dr. Tamara Lapsley shines a light on the unseen challenges military women often face—juggling duty, family, leadership, identity, and personal dreams. This inspiring novel celebrates the strength found in sisterhood, the power of perseverance, and the courage to remain true to yourself through every season of life.
Whether you’ve worn the uniform, supported someone who has, or simply appreciate stories of resilience and determination, this book will leave you feeling seen, encouraged, and inspired.
Why Readers Love This Book
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A heartfelt story of courage, sacrifice, and hope
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Celebrates the strength of women in uniform
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Explores family, leadership, identity, and purpose
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Inspires resilience through life’s greatest challenges
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Perfect for military families, veterans, leaders, and anyone who enjoys stories of personal growth
Who This Book Is For
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Women serving or who have served in the military
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Military spouses and families
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Veterans
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Women leaders
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Book clubs
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Readers who enjoy inspirational fiction
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Anyone who believes strength and compassion can coexist
What Readers Will Discover
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What Readers Will Discover
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The power of resilience during life’s toughest moments
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The importance of sisterhood and community
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Lessons about leadership, service, and sacrifice
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Encouragement to embrace every role with courage
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A reminder that behind every uniform is a woman with hopes, dreams, and a story worth telling